How does one succeed in life?

What I need from you?

Ask yourself:

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What are some tips for balancing chores, work, and family life as an adult with children?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How do you say "I don't speak Italian yet, but I hope to speak it well one day. It would be a pleasure to learn Italian with you. Would you like to teach me Italian?" in Italian?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Do not set goals—set systems.

What is the most sentimental item you inherited from someone dear to you and what does it mean to you?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What was the worst spanking you got growing up?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Do you think your landlord should have a key to your room?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What was the most challenging shift you experienced as an ER physician? Can you describe the details and reasons behind it?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What are your thoughts on Italian nationalist poet Gabriele D'Annunzio, who was the subject of the documentary "Fiume o morte!"?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why do old men think young women and girls would want them over guys their own age?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What is your opinion about homosexuality? Do you think that it is by nature or a choice?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What is a good comeback for when someone calls you flat?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If you were president, how would you make America "great again?"

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Which document should be pointed out to a holocaust denier?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

That's it for today.

What’s something you did a lot as a kid that you don’t miss now that you’re an adult?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Can you share something that captivates you, whether it's an idea, a discovery, or an invention?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Making more friends is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).